Hard Love succeeds through its raw portrayal of teenage isolation and the DIY zine culture that gives the protagonist a voice. Readers connect with John’s self-deprecating internal monologue and the high stakes tension of unrequited affection. Books in this family share a serious focus on complex family dynamics, unfiltered creative expression, and the messy reality of being an outsider.
A parent would reach for this book when their teenager is struggling to articulate their emotions following a family breakdown or experiencing the isolation of an unrequited first crush. It is particularly suited for teens who feel like outsiders and may be using creative outlets like writing or art to process their internal world. The story follows sixteen year old John, who navigates the fallout of his parents divorce while becoming fixated on Marisol, a talented zine creator who is confident in her identity as a lesbian. While the book explores themes of unrequited love, it is more deeply about the hard work of building self respect and learning to communicate honestly with family. Due to its mature themes of identity and emotional neglect, it is best for high schoolers aged 14 and up who are ready for a realistic, sometimes gritty exploration of coming of age.
