
Reach for this book when your middle schooler is retreating into their own world after a significant loss or family upheaval. It is an ideal choice for the child who seems to be 'stuck' in the past, finding it easier to dwell on memories than to face the difficult reality of a new living situation. The story follows thirteen-year-old Lisa, who moves in with her aunt after her parents die in a plane crash. Rather than engaging with her new life, Lisa uses her imagination and a mysterious 'imaginary' friend to mentally return to the time before the accident. This is a sensitive exploration of the 'bargaining' and 'denial' phases of grief. It offers parents a way to discuss the healthy role of imagination versus the need to eventually reconnect with the present. It is appropriate for ages 10 to 14, providing a realistic but ultimately hopeful roadmap for moving through deep sorrow.
Heavy focus on mourning, loneliness, and the struggle to accept a tragic reality.
The book deals directly with the death of both parents. The approach is secular and psychological, focusing on the internal mechanisms of grief rather than religious afterlife concepts. The resolution is realistic: Lisa doesn't 'get over' her loss, but she learns to integrate it into a functional life.
A 12-year-old who has experienced a 'life-before and life-after' event and is struggling with the transition. It is perfect for the introspective, creative child who uses daydreaming as a shield.
Parents should be prepared for the raw descriptions of Lisa's initial shock and the specific details of her moving away from her childhood home. It can be read cold, but expect a somber mood. A parent might notice their child becoming unusually withdrawn, talking excessively about 'how things used to be,' or creating elaborate fantasy worlds to avoid current responsibilities or social interactions.
Younger readers (10) may focus on the 'magic' of the imaginary playmate. Older readers (13-14) will recognize the playmate as a manifestation of Lisa's trauma and coping strategy.
Unlike many grief books that focus on the immediate aftermath, this one highlights the long-term psychological 'stuckness' and the seductive nature of nostalgia.
Thirteen-year-old Lisa's life is shattered when her parents are killed in a plane crash. Forced to move in with her aunt, she is overwhelmed by grief and the feeling of being an outsider in her new environment. To cope, Lisa develops a vivid inner world, aided by an imaginary companion, that allows her to 'return' to the days before the tragedy. The story tracks her gradual realization that while the past is precious, she cannot live there if she wants to truly heal.
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