
A parent would reach for this book when their teenager is struggling to articulate their emotions following a family breakdown or experiencing the isolation of an unrequited first crush. It is particularly suited for teens who feel like outsiders and may be using creative outlets like writing or art to process their internal world. The story follows sixteen year old John, who navigates the fallout of his parents divorce while becoming fixated on Marisol, a talented zine creator who is confident in her identity as a lesbian. While the book explores themes of unrequited love, it is more deeply about the hard work of building self respect and learning to communicate honestly with family. Due to its mature themes of identity and emotional neglect, it is best for high schoolers aged 14 and up who are ready for a realistic, sometimes gritty exploration of coming of age.
Focuses on intense unrequited love and explores the female protagonist's lesbian identity.
Deep exploration of loneliness, parental divorce, and emotional neglect.
Emotional neglect, abandonment by a parent, and a brief scene involving a physical altercation (slapping).
A high schooler who feels like an outsider or an 'observer' rather than a participant in their own life. It is perfect for the teen who expresses themselves better through art or writing than speech, and who is currently navigating the aftermath of a messy family split.
Parents should be aware that the book deals candidly with the failure of parents to provide emotional support. There is some mature language and a scene where John's father hits him, which serves as a turning point for John's self advocacy. The book can be read cold by most teens, but a discussion about boundaries and unrequited love might be helpful. A parent might see their teen becoming increasingly withdrawn, spending all their time alone in their room on creative projects, or perhaps showing signs of an intense, obsessive first crush that seems one sided.
A 14 year old may focus on the 'zine' culture and the awkwardness of the crush. An 18 year old will more likely resonate with the deeper themes of breaking away from parental dysfunction and the complexity of identity.
Unlike many YA romances, this book is about the necessity of 'un-romance.' It celebrates the validity of platonic friendship between people of different sexual orientations without trying to 'fix' the characters, focusing instead on the internal growth of the protagonist.
Sixteen year old John is emotionally paralyzed by his parents' acrimonious divorce and his mother's subsequent emotional withdrawal. He finds an outlet through creating a DIY zine, which leads him to Marisol, a self assured lesbian teen who also publishes her own work. John becomes obsessed with Marisol, confusing their creative connection with romantic love. The story tracks John's painful realization that Marisol cannot be what he wants her to be, forcing him to finally confront the neglectful dynamics in his own family and find his own voice.
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