
Reach for this book when your daughter is navigating the awkward, often humorous threshold of puberty or dealing with the complicated emotions of a distant parent re-entering her life. It provides a relatable, vintage-cool perspective on the messiness of growing up, specifically tackling the arrival of a first period and the anxiety of changing family dynamics. The story is anchored by a deep female friendship that offers a sense of security during a time of great physical and emotional flux. Written with a witty, dry sense of humor, it serves as an excellent icebreaker for parents who want to normalize bodily changes and the reality that parents are imperfect humans. It is perfectly suited for children ages 9 to 12 who are starting to notice their own 'nonconformity' in a world that often demands perfection.
The book deals directly with menstruation and the emotional impact of divorce/absenteeism. The approach is secular and very realistic. The resolution is hopeful but grounded: Al doesn't suddenly have a perfect relationship with her father, but she finds a way to acknowledge his role in her life.
A 10 or 11-year-old girl who feels like an outsider or is worried about starting her period, and who appreciates a protagonist who isn't 'perfectly polished.'
Read cold. The discussion of menstruation is handled naturally and with humor, but parents should be ready to answer follow-up questions about the logistics of periods. A parent might see their child struggling with body image, expressing resentment toward a non-custodial parent, or feeling overwhelmed by the social pressures of middle school.
Younger readers (8-9) will focus on the humor and the friendship; older readers (11-12) will deeply resonate with the father-daughter tension and the desire for independence.
Unlike many modern 'issue' books, this has a classic, gritty New York City 1970s/80s feel that focuses on the internal monologue and dry wit of the characters rather than melodrama.
Al (Alexandra) is a seventh grader in New York City facing several milestones at once. She is dealing with the physical changes of puberty, specifically getting her first period, and is struggling with her self-image. Simultaneously, her father, who has been absent for years, reaches out and invites her to his wedding. The narrative, told from the perspective of Al's nameless best friend, follows Al as she navigates these complex emotional waters with humor and skepticism.
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