
Reach for this book when your middle-schooler starts expressing anxiety about social milestones like first dates or group outings. It is a perfect choice for the child who feels like an awkward 'late bloomer' compared to their peers. The story follows Al and her best friend Thelma as they navigate the humorous and often agonizing preparations for a blind date. It captures the universal desire to look and act grown up while still feeling very much like a kid inside. Constance C. Greene treats these pre-teen worries with genuine respect and lighthearted humor. Parents will appreciate how the book normalizes the physical and emotional insecurities of puberty without being overly heavy-handed. It celebrates the safety net of friendship during life's most embarrassing moments. While written in the early 90s, the feelings of self-consciousness and the importance of a loyal best friend remain timeless for the 9 to 12 age group.
Minor references to Al's feelings regarding her father's absence.
The book deals with body image and self-esteem in a direct but humorous way. It also touches on Al's family structure as she navigates life with a single mother and a father who is mostly absent, handled with a secular and realistic tone.
A 10 or 11-year-old girl who is starting to care about clothes and boys but still feels more like a kid than a teenager. It is perfect for the reader who enjoys 'slice of life' stories and values the bond of a close-knit female friendship.
This book can be read cold. Parents might want to discuss how beauty standards have changed (or stayed the same) since the 1990s setting. A parent might notice their child spending more time in front of the mirror, critiquing their appearance, or expressing fear about 'looking stupid' in front of peers.
Younger readers (age 9) will see the date as a funny, aspirational adventure. Older readers (age 12) will deeply empathize with the specific social anxieties and the pressure to perform adulthood.
Unlike many modern 'crush' books, Greene focuses more on the internal dialogue and the friendship between the two girls than on the romantic interest itself.
Al and her best friend Thelma are entering the world of dating. When Thelma's cousin Harry needs dates for himself and a friend, the girls jump at the chance. The narrative focuses heavily on the 'getting ready' process: the fashion choices, the beauty mishaps, and the nervous chatter that precedes the event. It culminates in the date itself, which serves as a realistic look at early teenage social interaction.
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