
Reach for this book when your child is facing a tough choice between a long-awaited personal goal and an unexpected family obligation. It speaks directly to the 'sandwich' of emotions children feel when they want to be independent but realize their loved ones truly need them. Al is a relatable, witty protagonist navigating the complexities of a blended family and a sudden health crisis when her mother falls ill. It is a gentle yet honest look at the weight of responsibility, perfect for middle-grade readers who are beginning to understand that growing up means making sacrifices for the people you love. Parents will appreciate the humor and the realistic portrayal of modern family dynamics.
The book deals with parental illness (pneumonia) and the complexities of divorce and blended families. The approach is secular and very direct. The resolution is realistic: Al misses her trip, but the bond with her mother is strengthened, and she finds pride in her maturity.
An 11-year-old girl who feels like she is 'too old' for some things but 'too young' for others, especially one who is navigating the social pressures of city life and the specific brand of guilt that comes with being a child of divorce.
Read cold. The book is straightforward, though parents may want to discuss the dynamics of Al's relationship with her 'perfect' stepfamily. A parent might see their child acting resentful or 'selfish' when a family emergency disrupts their plans, or notice a child trying to hide their disappointment to avoid making a parent feel guilty.
Younger readers (8-9) will focus on the humor and the friendship between the two girls. Older readers (11-12) will better grasp the emotional weight of Al's sacrifice and the nuance of her relationship with her mother.
Unlike many 'problem novels' of its era, it uses sharp, dry humor to tackle heavy themes without becoming didactic or overly sentimental.
Al (Alexandra) has been looking forward to spending the summer with her father and his new family in the country, a welcome escape from her city life. However, when her mother is hospitalized with pneumonia, Al's plans are thrown into chaos. The story follows Al as she processes her disappointment, manages her guilt, and eventually decides to stay home to care for her mother and manage the household. Supported by her best friend (the unnamed narrator), Al discovers her own resilience and the true meaning of being 'the Great.'
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