Families who loved The Pain and the Great One by Judy Blume often look for books with a similar feel. These 20 recommendations were selected for their similarity in style, theme, and reading level.
Reach for this book when your children are stuck in a cycle of 'it's not fair' or competing for your attention. It is the perfect tool for when siblings are convinced that a brother or sister is the 'favorite' child. This humorous and relatable story provides two different perspectives on the same family life, one from an eight-year-old girl and one from her six-year-old brother. Each child describes the other as an annoying burden while being certain that their parents love the other sibling more. By showing that both children feel this way, Judy Blume brilliantly normalizes sibling jealousy and reassures children that parental love isn't a finite resource to be won or lost. It is a gentle, funny way to open a conversation about family dynamics and individual needs.