
A parent would reach for this book when their child is struggling with the arrival of a new sibling or feeling ignored during the busy routines of home life. Martin, the young protagonist, decides that since his mother is too busy with the new baby to notice him, he must find a place very far away where things are different. He packs his things and sets off on a whimsical journey that captures the intense, sometimes lonely feelings of childhood displacement. While the story explores themes of jealousy and the desire for independence, it does so with Maurice Sendak's signature humor and imaginative flair. It is a gentle, developmentally appropriate look at the big emotions of a preschooler or early elementary student. Parents will appreciate how it validates a child's feelings of being overlooked without being heavy-handed, ultimately showing that even when we dream of leaving, home is a place of comfort and belonging.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book deals with sibling rivalry and emotional neglect in a metaphorical, secular, and gentle way. The resolution is realistic: Martin returns home not because the baby is gone, but because he realizes that 'very far away' isn't as easy as it looks and home is where he belongs.
A 4 to 6-year-old who has recently become a 'big' sibling and is acting out or expressing a desire to leave or 'run away' because they feel the family dynamic has changed too much.
This book can be read cold. It is helpful to note the mid-century illustrations which are classic Sendak but may feel 'vintage' to modern eyes. A child saying 'You don't love me anymore' or 'I'm leaving' after a parent spends a long time tending to a baby's needs.
Younger children (3-4) will focus on the animals and the fun of packing a bag. Older children (5-7) will deeply identify with Martin's internal conflict and the humor of the animals' bickering.
Unlike modern 'new baby' books that focus on how helpful the big sibling can be, Sendak honors the child's valid anger and the fantasy of escape with total honesty.
Martin is frustrated because his mother is preoccupied with a new baby. He puts on a cowboy suit, packs a bag, and announces he is going 'very far away.' Along his journey, he encounters a horse, a cat, and a sparrow who join him in search of a place where they can do exactly what they want. They eventually settle on a spot, but they soon realize that living together with different personalities is difficult. Martin eventually decides to return home, discovering that his perspective on his family has shifted.
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