Families who loved Kirby's Lessons for Falling (in Love) by Laura Gao often look for books with a similar feel. These 20 recommendations were selected for their similarity in style, theme, and reading level.
Reach for this book when your teenager feels paralyzed by the weight of parental expectations or is struggling to reconcile their personal passions with their family's traditional values. It is an ideal choice for the child who excels in one area but secretly dreams of another, providing a gentle bridge to discuss the courage required to be authentic. Through the lens of Kirby, a talented gymnast who finds an unexpected calling in dance, this graphic novel explores the anxiety of 'coming out' as your true self to those whose approval matters most. Set against the backdrop of a Chinese-American household, the story navigates the nuances of cultural identity and the pressure of being the perfect daughter. It normalizes the fear of disappointment and the messy process of finding where you belong. Parents will find this helpful for validating their child's need for independence while maintaining a hopeful, realistic outlook on family dynamics. It is a modern, relatable story for ages thirteen and up that emphasizes that falling down is often the first step toward flying.
