
Reach for this book when your teenager is processing a deep personal loss and seems to be retreating into their own world or struggling to let go of the past. It speaks directly to the isolating nature of grief and the way young people use imagination as a survival mechanism. The story follows Eric, who meets a boy named Haru whom only he can see, blurring the lines between memory and reality. While it deals with heavy themes of death and loneliness, it is a compassionate exploration of mental health and the healing power of connection. It is highly appropriate for older teens who appreciate lyrical, emotional storytelling and need to see their internal struggles validated. Parents might choose this to open a safe dialogue about what is real, what is remembered, and how to move forward without forgetting.
Sweet, emotional connection and longing between the two main male characters.
Pervasive exploration of grief, mourning, and the death of a close friend.
Death of a peer, intense grief and mourning, themes of mental health struggles including dissociation and hallucination, and terminal illness of a family member.
An older teenager who feels isolated by their own grief or someone who tends to process trauma by retreating into books and imagination. It is perfect for the reader who finds comfort in the bittersweet and prefers emotional depth over fast-paced action.
This book can be read cold by most teens, but parents should be prepared for the heavy focus on the permanence of death. The final third of the book is particularly intense as Eric's mental state becomes more precarious. A parent might notice their child becoming increasingly withdrawn, talking about a lost loved one as if they are still present, or struggling to distinguish their memories from current reality.
Younger teens (14) may focus on the romantic and supernatural elements of Haru's presence. Older teens (17 to 18) will likely connect more deeply with the psychological complexities of grief and the metaphor of Haru as a survival mechanism.
While many YA books tackle grief, this one stands out for its dreamlike, speculative execution. It uses the trope of the 'imaginary friend' to explore the serious psychological tolls of trauma, refusing to offer a simple, magical fix for the protagonist's pain.
Eric Ly is drowning in grief after the sudden death of his best friend. To cope, he retreats into elaborate daydreams, until one of those dreams manifests as a physical person: Haru Tanaka, a boy he met briefly in Japan. Haru becomes Eric's constant companion, but he is invisible to everyone else. The narrative follows Eric as he navigates the blurring line between comfort and a dangerous break from reality.
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