
Reach for this book when your teenager is struggling with the friction between their family heritage and their personal aspirations. It is an essential read for young people who feel like they are constantly performing for two different worlds: the one inside their home and the one outside their front door. The story follows two Syrian girls, one an American-born athlete and the other a recent refugee, as they navigate the heavy weight of being the perfect daughter while healing from the scars of the Syrian Revolution. It is a deeply nuanced look at identity, trauma, and the courage it takes to define oneself. Parents will find this a powerful tool for opening conversations about high expectations, the complexity of the immigrant experience, and the importance of finding friends who truly understand your burdens. It is best suited for older teens due to its mature themes of war-related trauma and complex family dynamics.
Characters keep secrets and rebel against parents to seek the truth.
Depictions of refugee trauma, loss of family members, and the impact of war.
The book addresses the Syrian Civil War, refugee trauma, and mental health directly and realistically. Panic attacks are depicted with visceral detail. The resolution is realistic and hopeful, focusing on self-actualization rather than a neat fixing of geopolitical or familial problems.
A high school junior or senior who feels stifled by their community's expectations or a teen who is interested in the intersection of sports, culture, and social justice.
Parents should be aware of scenes depicting the aftermath of war and Leene's intense panic attacks. The book can be read cold, but familiarity with the basic timeline of the Syrian Revolution provides helpful context. A parent might notice their teen becoming increasingly withdrawn or defensive about their future plans.
Younger teens (14) will focus on the friendship and the sports elements, while older teens (17-18) will better grasp the nuance of the political trauma and the burden of parental sacrifice.
Unlike many stories that focus solely on the struggle to assimilate, this book highlights the internal diversity within the Syrian diaspora, specifically the friction and eventual solidarity between established immigrants and new refugees. ```
Khadija is a Syrian American senior who uses boxing and football to vent her frustrations with her mother's rigid expectations. Leene is a Syrian refugee struggling with PTSD and the pressure to be the submissive, ideal daughter in her new Michigan home. Initially at odds, the two are forced together when Khadija discovers a mystery regarding Leene's past. Their journey takes them from the suburbs of Detroit to Jordan, where they must confront the reality of the Syrian Revolution and their own shifting identities.
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