
Reach for this book when your middle-schooler is beginning to explore their identity or experiencing their first crush, especially if they are navigating a community where traditional values feel at odds with their personal truth. Set in the 1970s, the story follows Allie and Samantha as they navigate a blossoming relationship in a world that demands they keep it hidden. It is a gentle yet honest look at the tension between religious upbringing and self-acceptance. While the 1970s setting provides some historical distance, the emotional themes of bravery, friendship, and the fear of being 'different' are timeless. Parents will appreciate the way it models integrity and resilience. It is highly appropriate for ages 9 to 13, offering a safe space to discuss how social norms change over time and the importance of finding a supportive community.
Protagonist is grieving the death of her brother in a freak accident.
The book handles identity and LGBTQ+ themes directly but with a period-appropriate lens. The approach to religion is central: it depicts the conflict between conservative Christian doctrine and personal identity. The resolution is realistic and hopeful, focusing on finding 'pockets' of acceptance rather than a total societal shift.
A 10 to 12 year old who feels like an outsider or who is beginning to question their orientation. It's also perfect for kids who enjoy historical fiction that feels personal rather than political.
Parents should be prepared to discuss the 1970s context, specifically the lack of legal protections for LGBTQ+ individuals, and why the teachers were at risk of losing their jobs. A parent might notice their child withdrawing from social or church groups, or perhaps their child has asked 'Is it okay to like girls?' after seeing a negative reaction to someone else.
Younger readers will focus on the 'first crush' and 'new girl' tropes. Older readers will pick up on the weight of the social consequences and the teachers' subplot as a cautionary but ultimately supportive tale.
Unlike many modern LGBTQ+ middle grade books, this one uses its historical setting to explore the intersection of faith and identity in a way that is respectful but firm about the importance of self-truth.
Allie moves to North Carolina in 1975 following her parents' separation and her brother's death. She joins the basketball team and forms an intense bond with Samantha. As their friendship turns into a crush, they must navigate the prejudices of their small town, their school, and Sam's religious family. Meanwhile, they discover that two of their teachers are also living a secret life together, providing a mirror for their own journey.
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