
Reach for this book if your child is navigating the complex social hierarchies of middle elementary school or if you suspect they are witnessing someone being treated unfairly. It provides a raw, honest look at how children perceive those who look or act differently, following Jenny as she moves from judging her new classmate, Elsie, to understanding the painful reality of Elsie's home life. The story tackles difficult themes like childhood obesity, parental neglect, and the pressure to conform with surprising depth. It is a vital tool for parents who want to move beyond simple kindness and help their child develop the emotional intelligence to look beneath the surface of a person's behavior. While written in the 1980s, the school dynamics and the desire to belong remain timelessly relatable for 8 to 12 year olds.
Depicts parental neglect and emotional abuse regarding a child's weight and food access.
The book deals directly and realistically with emotional abuse, food restriction, and body shaming. The resolution is hopeful but realistic: Elsie doesn't become 'perfect,' but she finds a supportive community. It is secular in nature.
A 10-year-old girl who is starting to notice cliques forming in her classroom and feels conflicted between being 'cool' and being kind.
Parents should preview the scenes involving Elsie's mother, as her behavior is quite harsh. The book was written in 1981, so some language around dieting and weight reflects that era and may require a conversation about modern perspectives on body positivity. A parent might choose this if their child says something derogatory about a classmate's weight or if the child mentions a friend who 'never has lunch' or seems to have a difficult home life.
Younger readers (8-9) focus on the school drama and the unfairness of the teacher. Older readers (11-12) will better grasp the nuance of the neglectful home environment and the moral complexity of Elsie's stealing.
Unlike many 'bullying' books that focus on a villain, this book examines the 'bystander' perspective and shows how small acts of inclusion can change a person's life.
Narrated by Jenny, the story follows a fifth-grade class as they react to a new student, Elsie Edwards. Elsie is significantly overweight and initially ostracized for her appearance and her habit of stealing lunch money to buy candy. As Jenny gets to know Elsie through a tutoring arrangement, she discovers that Elsie's mother is emotionally abusive and restricts Elsie's food to a point of starvation. The class eventually rallies around Elsie, helping her find a sense of belonging.
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