
A parent would reach for this book when their child is struggling with a quick temper, navigating a difficult relationship with a parent, or feeling like they are 'bad' because of their family circumstances. Set in the 1940s, it follows Gordy as he escapes his abusive, alcoholic father to live with his strict but loving grandmother. This story is an essential tool for children who carry the weight of family trauma, offering a realistic look at the cycle of anger and the courage it takes to break it. While the 10 to 14 age range is ideal for the complex themes of domestic violence and emotional regulation, the story remains deeply hopeful. It explores how positive adult role models and meaningful friendships can shift a child's self-perception. You might choose this book to help a child understand that their past does not define their future and that asking for help is a sign of strength.
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Sign in to write a reviewThemes of neglect, poverty, and the emotional toll of living with an abusive parent.
Frequent mentions of the father's alcoholism and its destructive effects on the family.
References to past physical abuse and scenes where Gordy gets into physical altercations.
The book deals directly and realistically with physical abuse and alcoholism. The approach is secular and psychological, focusing on the internal landscape of a traumatized child. The resolution is hopeful but grounded in reality; the father is not magically cured, but Gordy learns he is not his father.
A middle schooler who feels misunderstood or 'difficult,' particularly one who has experienced family instability or has a parent struggling with addiction.
Parents should be aware of scenes describing the father's past violence (hitting his children) and his drunken behavior. Be prepared to discuss why the father behaves this way, and to reassure children that they are never responsible for a parent's actions. It is best to read this alongside the child or preview the first few chapters. A parent might see their child reacting with disproportionate anger to small rules, or perhaps they've noticed their child retreating into a 'tough' persona to hide vulnerability.
Younger readers (10-11) will focus on the historical setting and the friendship with William. Older readers (13-14) will better grasp the cycle of abuse and Gordy's internal struggle with his self-perception and fear of becoming like his father.
Unlike many 'problem novels' of the 90s, this is a sequel to 'Stepping on the Cracks' but stands alone by focusing intensely on the perpetrator's child, humanizing the 'bully' from the first book. ```
Picking up during the 1940s, Gordy Smith and his siblings are whisked away to North Carolina to live with their maternal grandmother after their abusive, alcoholic father is arrested. Gordy is defensive, angry, and prone to lashing out, convinced he is destined to be just like his dad. Through the firm boundaries of his grandmother and a transformative friendship with William, a boy living with the effects of polio, Gordy begins to untangle his trauma and learn what it means to be a 'man' in a healthy way.
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