
Reach for this book when your child is struggling to bridge a social gap at school, or if they are curious about how children from war-torn regions find safety and friendship in America. This story follows two fourth-graders from different worlds: Drita, a Muslim refugee from Kosovo, and Maxie, a popular girl in their inner-city school. Through their alternating perspectives, the book explores the loneliness of the immigrant experience and the universal pain of grief, as both girls are coping with the recent loss of a loved one. It is a gentle yet honest look at how shared projects and simple kindness can dismantle cultural barriers and build deep, lasting connections.
The book deals directly with the aftermath of war, the death of a parent (Maxie's mother), and clinical depression (Drita's mother). The approach is realistic and secular, emphasizing therapy and community support. The resolution is hopeful but grounded: Drita's mother begins to seek help, and the girls find a support system in one another.
A 9 to 11 year old who may feel like an outsider, or a child who needs help understanding that 'popular' kids or 'different' kids often have hidden struggles.
Parents should be prepared to discuss the Kosovo War and the reasons people become refugees. The book doesn't go into great detail about the war itself, but children may have questions about why Drita's family had to leave their home. The scenes involving Drita's mother's depression are poignant and may require a conversation about how grief can make people act differently. A parent might notice their child making snap judgments about a classmate or expressing feelings of 'not fitting in' despite being socially active.
Younger readers will focus on the school drama and the fun of a new friendship. Older readers will better grasp the political subtext of Drita's trauma and the complexity of Maxie's grief.
Unlike many refugee stories that focus solely on the struggle, this book balances the immigrant experience with a contemporary American 'school story' feel, making it highly relatable to a broad audience. """
The story is told in alternating chapters by Drita, a ten-year-old refugee fleeing the war in Kosovo, and Maxie, a fourth-grader in New York City. Drita struggles with language barriers and her mother's severe depression following their escape. Maxie, while seemingly confident, is grieving the death of her mother and hiding her vulnerability behind a tough exterior. Their teacher pairs them for a research project on Kosovo, forcing them to interact. Through their work, they discover shared emotional ground, leading to a friendship that helps both families begin to heal.
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