
A parent would reach for this book when their child is experiencing the heavy, isolating fog of grief after the loss of a loved one, or when a creative child feels their unique 'voice' has been silenced by tragedy. It is a tender story about Yolanda, nicknamed Pump, whose world revolves around the poetry she shared with her father. When he passes away, her words disappear too, until she forms an unlikely bond with a boy named Jim Jim. Together, they navigate the complexities of their neighborhood and the healing power of shared art. This short chapter book is ideal for ages 8 to 12. It moves beyond the immediate shock of death to explore the long term process of 'growing' through pain. Parents will appreciate the authentic depiction of a Black urban community and the way the story validates a child's need for creative expression as a tool for emotional survival. It is a hopeful choice for encouraging resilience and showing how new friendships can help us rediscover the parts of ourselves we thought were lost forever.
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Themes of mourning, loneliness, and the struggle to find joy again.
The book deals directly with the death of a parent. The approach is realistic and secular, focusing on the internal emotional landscape of the child rather than religious explanations. The resolution is hopeful but grounded: the grief doesn't vanish, but it becomes manageable through connection and creativity.
A middle-grade reader who feels 'different' or misunderstood, especially one who uses writing or drawing to process their world. It is perfect for a child who has experienced a major life transition, such as a move or a loss, and is struggling to reconnect with their passions.
This is a short, accessible read that can be read cold, though parents may want to be prepared to discuss why Pump stops writing poetry and how sadness can sometimes make it hard to do the things we love. They can also emphasize that it's okay to take a break and that passions can be rekindled. A parent might notice their child has stopped doing something they once loved (like drawing, singing, or playing) after a sad event, or they may hear their child say that 'nobody understands' how they feel.
Younger readers (8-9) will focus on the friendship and the 'meanness' of the bullies. Older readers (11-12) will better grasp the metaphor of the lost poetry as a representation of Pump's internal spirit.
Unlike many 'grief books' that focus on the funeral or the immediate aftermath, Growin' focuses on the long-tail of recovery and offers a needed representation of a young Black girl navigating grief through art in an urban setting. """
Yolanda (Pump) is devastated by the sudden death of her father, the primary cheerleader for her poetry. Moving to a new neighborhood with her mother, she feels isolated and guarded. She eventually forms a prickly but deep friendship with Jim Jim, a boy who shares her artistic soul (he is a visual artist). Together they face neighborhood bullies and the internal struggle of moving forward without forgetting the past. The book concludes with Pump finally being able to write again, signifying her emotional recovery.
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