
Reach for this book when your teen is standing at the crossroads of their own future, feeling the heavy weight of family loyalty against the pull of their personal dreams. It is an ideal choice for families navigating the transition to college or those interested in stories about balancing cultural traditions with individual identity. The story follows Chloe, a Chinese Filipina girl in Manila, as she navigates a series of arranged dates, a lavish debutante ball, and the high stakes of choosing between a safe path at home or a risky animation career in the United States. While the romance is sweet and humorous, the core of the book is a sophisticated look at the 'guilt' often felt by children of immigrant or high-achieving families. It is a lighthearted yet deeply resonant read for high schoolers aged 13 and up.
Sweet romance with kissing and some light flirting.
The book explores the stress of balancing family expectations with personal desires, particularly regarding career choices and romantic relationships, through a secular, realistic lens. The conflict regarding parental pressure and the fear of disappointing one's family is handled with nuance. The resolution is hopeful and empowering, emphasizing communication over rebellion.
A high school junior or senior who feels like their life path has been pre-written by their parents and needs the courage to advocate for their own creative passions.
Parents may find it helpful to understand the significance of the 'debut' tradition in Filipino culture, as it plays a central role in Chloe's story. A parent might see their child withdrawal or appear anxious when discussing college applications or future career plans, specifically if those plans deviate from 'practical' family expectations.
Younger teens will enjoy the 'fake dating' tropes and the fun rom-com energy. Older teens will resonate more deeply with the existential dread of leaving home and the complexity of disappointing a parent you love.
This book offers a vibrant look at wealthy Manila life through Chloe's experiences as part of the Lan-nang community (a blend of Chinese and Filipino heritage), showcasing unique traditions like the 'kaishao' (arranged dates). """
Chloe Liang is the 'perfect' daughter in a wealthy Chinese Filipina family. She is expected to stay in Manila for business school, but she secretly applied to USC for animation. When she gets in, her father attempts to keep her close by setting up a series of 'kaishao' (arranged dates) with eligible boys, while her aunt plans a massive 18th birthday debut. Chloe must navigate these dates, her growing feelings for a boy who wasn't on her father's list, and the impending deadline to choose her future.
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