
Reach for this book when your pre-teen starts showing signs of romantic interest or social anxiety regarding the opposite sex. It is a perfect choice for parents of middle schoolers who are navigating the awkward transition from childhood play to the complicated world of dating and boyfriends. The story follows Alice McKinley as she navigates her first summer with a boyfriend, capturing the specific neuroses of sixth and seventh grade life with humor and warmth. Phyllis Reynolds Naylor masterfully handles the interior monologue of a young girl who is terrified of making a mistake in her social life. The book addresses themes of self-consciousness, peer influence, and the importance of open communication with family. Parents will appreciate how Alice uses her single father and older brother as sounding boards, providing a healthy model for family transparency during the often secretive years of early adolescence.
Focuses on the anxiety of first kisses and hand-holding. Very age-appropriate.
The book deals with the death of a mother in Alice's past, though it is handled as a settled fact of her life rather than a fresh trauma. The approach is secular and realistic. There is also a mention of a pet fish dying, used primarily as a comedic device to highlight Alice's social awkwardness.
A 10 to 12 year old girl who is beginning to feel the pressure of the 'dating scene' and feels like everyone else has an instruction manual that she missed. It is perfect for the child who is more comfortable with humor than high drama.
The book is safe for cold reading. Parents might want to be ready to discuss the scene where a friend's mother threatens to cut her hair as a punishment for kissing, as it highlights different (and somewhat extreme) parenting styles. A parent might see their child obsessing over their appearance before a simple hang out or hearing them recount 'rules' for dating they heard from friends that seem restrictive or silly.
Younger readers (9-10) will find the 'rules' of dating funny and slightly gross. Older readers (12-13) will deeply empathize with the cringeworthy social moments and the desire to seem more mature than they feel.
Naylor’s 'Alice' series is a gold standard for its honest, non-judgmental, and hilarious depiction of the mundane but monumental milestones of growing up. Unlike flashier modern series, it focuses on the internal logic of a middle schooler with remarkable precision.
Alice McKinley enters the summer after sixth grade with her first official boyfriend, Patrick. Along with her best friends Elizabeth and Pamela, she tries to navigate the unwritten rules of romance, from the timing of answering phone calls to the high stakes of a first real kiss. Alice deals with the lack of a maternal figure by observing her friends' mothers and consulting her supportive but sometimes baffled father and brother.
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