
Reach for this book when your child experiences their first major setback, such as failing a test, losing a championship game, or struggling to master a new skill. It is designed for those moments when a child feels paralyzed by the fear of making a mistake or is weighed down by the shame of not being perfect. The book provides a direct and honest conversation about why failure is not just okay, but necessary for growth. Author Laymon Hicks removes the stigma surrounding mistakes by reframing failure as a powerful tool for learning rather than a reflection of a child's worth. Through clear, bold typography and relatable examples, it moves away from toxic positivity to offer a realistic approach to resilience. It is an essential tool for parents of elementary-aged children who need to build a healthier internal monologue regarding success and perseverance.
The book is secular and highly realistic. It deals with emotional vulnerability and the psychological weight of shame. The resolution is hopeful but grounded in the reality that failure will happen again, focusing on the child's reaction rather than the avoidance of the event.
An elementary student who is a 'perfectionist' and becomes visibly distressed or shuts down when they cannot complete a task perfectly on the first try.
This book is best read together. While it can be read cold, parents should be ready to share a personal story of a time they failed to model the vulnerability the book encourages. A parent might see their child rip up a drawing because it isn't perfect, or hear their child say, 'I'm just not good at this' after one unsuccessful attempt.
For a 5-year-old, the focus will be on the bold visuals and the basic idea that 'mistakes are okay.' For a 9-year-old, the nuances of growth mindset and the specific strategies for overcoming shame will resonate more deeply.
Part of the 'A Kids Book About' series, its unique strength is its design. It uses no illustrations, relying on bold typography and color to convey emotion, which forces the child to focus on the power of the words and their own internal reflections.
Unlike a traditional narrative, this book functions as a direct conversation between the author and the reader. It defines failure, explores the feelings of embarrassment and frustration that accompany it, and provides a framework for how to move forward. It emphasizes that failure is a permanent part of the human experience and a requirement for achievement.
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