
Reach for this book when your middle schooler is struggling with the crushing weight of adolescent awkwardness, feeling invisible at school, or retreating into their shell to avoid judgment. This graphic memoir follows thirteen year old Dan on a life changing school trip to Europe, where he faces a series of firsts that push him outside his comfort zone. While it addresses painful themes of bullying and his mother's struggle with lupus, the narrative is primarily a celebration of self discovery. Parents will appreciate the vulnerability with which Santat depicts his younger self, offering a bridge for conversations about finding one's place in the world. It is an ideal pick for ages 10 to 14, providing a roadmap for how curiosity and a change of scenery can help a child redefine who they are. The vibrant illustrations and humor make the more poignant moments accessible, ensuring the reader feels seen rather than overwhelmed.
Depicts the emotional strain of a parent's chronic illness (lupus).
Brief, humorous encounter with punk rockers involves beer in a cultural context.
The book deals directly with the impact of chronic illness (lupus) on a family and the psychological toll of persistent school bullying. These are handled realistically but within a hopeful framework. There is a secular, grounded approach to these challenges.
A sensitive middle school boy who feels defined by his mistakes or his social standing and needs to know that the world is much bigger than his current school hallway.
Parents should be aware of scenes involving mild teen mischief, such as an encounter with German punk rockers and a brief instance of 'stealing' a bike, though these are played for humor and growth. A parent hears their child say, 'Everyone hates me' or 'I'm just not good at making friends,' or notices their child is hiding a talent to avoid being teased.
Younger readers (10-11) will focus on the humor, the travel adventure, and the 'cool' factor of being abroad. Older readers (13-14) will resonate more deeply with the romantic tension and the profound relief of escaping a toxic social environment.
Unlike many coming-of-age stories that focus on internal change alone, this memoir uses the physical movement through different cultures as a literal and metaphorical engine for personal growth, all captured through Santat’s masterfully expressive artwork.
In 1989, socially anxious thirteen year old Dan Santat travels through six European countries on a school trip. Initially feeling isolated and weighed down by memories of school humiliations and his mother's illness, Dan gradually opens up through a series of 'firsts.' He experiences foreign foods, unexpected friendships, a first romance, and gains the courage to share his art, ultimately transforming his self-perception.
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