
Reach for this book when you notice your child navigating the painful 'drifting apart' phase of a long-term friendship. It is an essential read for middle-grade students who feel like they are being left behind as their peers develop new, different interests. The story follows Astrid as she signs up for roller derby camp while her best friend, Nicole, chooses dance camp with a new group of girls. Through the high-energy world of roller derby, the book explores the grit required to learn a new skill and the vulnerability of forming a self-identity independent of a best friend. It provides a realistic, hopeful look at how 'growing up' sometimes means 'growing away,' while normalizing the jealousy and loneliness that come with social shifts. It is a perfect choice for encouraging resilience and self-reliance in children aged 9 to 12.
Physicality of roller derby involves falling, bumps, and minor sports injuries.
Significant focus on the sadness and jealousy of losing a best friend.
The book deals primarily with social identity and the 'break up' of a childhood friendship. The approach is deeply realistic and secular. The resolution is hopeful but honest: Astrid and Nicole don't magically become best friends again, but they reach a place of mutual respect and new beginnings.
An 11-year-old girl who feels like the 'odd one out' in her friend group or a child who is struggling to find a hobby that feels authentically theirs rather than a reflection of their peers.
Read cold. The book is very accessible. Parents might want to discuss the 'white lies' Astrid tells her mom about Nicole's mother driving her home, as it's a point of tension. A parent might see their child crying over a social media post of former friends hanging out together, or notice their child feeling 'uncool' compared to more traditionally feminine peers.
Younger readers (9-10) will focus on the cool factor of the skates and the physical slapstick. Older readers (11-12) will deeply feel the social anxiety and the nuance of the changing friendship dynamics.
Unlike many 'girl power' books that focus on immediate success, Roller Girl emphasizes the literal bruises and the long, unglamorous process of actually getting good at something while being lonely.
Astrid and her lifelong best friend Nicole are hitting that awkward middle school transition where interests diverge. While Nicole heads to dance camp with a new 'cool' friend, Astrid impulsively joins a junior roller derby league. The story follows her grueling physical journey from 'falling down constantly' to finding her place on the track, all while navigating the emotional sting of friendship loss and the white lies she tells her mother to keep her insecurity hidden.
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