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Consent & Boundaries Books for Ages 8–11 – Wonderlit | Wonderlit

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Consent & Boundaries Books for Ages 8–11

As your child navigates the social complexities of upper elementary school, they are learning that personal space and emotional limits are about more than just physical touch. These 130 books help them manage the nuance of peer pressure, digital boundaries, and the right to say no as they claim their own independence. We want to give them the language to respect themselves and others during these formative years of growing up.

128 books

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Staying Safe Around Strangers

Empower your child with practical safety rules for interacting with people they don't know in public and online social s

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What If a Stranger Approaches You?

For parents looking to empower their child with clear safety rules, this guide helps kids identify safe adults and handl

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Frank and Bean #3

Frank and the Big Mistake

Martha Brockenbrough

For the child learning to navigate tricky social boundaries when a high-energy houseguest or younger sibling disrupts th

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Hair Stories #2

Don't Touch My Hair!

Sharee Miller

A young girl finds creative ways to outrun curious hands in this lighthearted lesson on asking for permission and respec

Ages 4–8

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Bootsie Barker Bites

Barbara Bottner

Bootsie Barker is a terror who only plays games that involve biting, until a clever friend finds a way to change the rul

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A Little Space for Me

Jennifer Gray Olson

For the child who feels overwhelmed by a loud or busy world, this gentle story teaches the importance of finding and nur

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For the child carrying a heavy secret or processing a difficult past, this story offers a path toward finding your voice

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Skeletina and the Greedy Tooth Fairy

Susie Jaramillo

For the child learning to set boundaries, Skeletina navigates a spooky-sweet world to stop a greedy visitor from taking

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My Best Behavior

Harrison P. Spader, Personal Space Invader

Christianne Jones

For the child who struggles to keep their hands to themselves or understand physical boundaries, this story offers a fri

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Mani Semilla Finds Her Quetzal Voice

For the middle schooler navigating the messy intersection of body changes, family secrets, and the discovery that they c

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Safety on the Internet

For the child starting to use tablets or computers independently. This guide introduces the concept of digital boundarie

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The Rat and the Tiger

Tiger always picks the games and takes the biggest snack, but little Rat is about to show his big friend that fairness i

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Two boys discover the magic of connection when their hand-drawn lines meet, only to face a sudden tangle when a misstep

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Mayim Bialik's Guides #1

For the girl noticing changes in her body or mind, this guide uses science and personal stories to navigate the transiti

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Meeting the Make-out King

Nora finally made it into the cool crowd, but it isn’t what she expected. Now her friends are pushing her toward a boy s

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Social-Emotional Learning

Martha E. H. Rustad

For the early reader learning to navigate playground dynamics. This straightforward guide explains what bullying looks l

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Bunk 9's Guide to Growing Up

Bunk 9 offers an honest, supportive, and entertaining look at the changes of puberty, making the journey feel a lot more

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Girling Up and Boying Up #2

Boying Up: How to Be Brave, Bold and Brilliant

A supportive guide for boys navigating the messy transition to adulthood, blending scientific facts with honest advice a

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Usborne Starting Point Science

Where Do Babies Come From?

For the curious child asking big questions about how life begins, this gentle guide provides clear, honest, and age-appr

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What If You Get Lost?

For the child who feels nervous about crowds or getting separated, this guide provides a step by step plan to stay calm

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Saurabh Agarwal

Elastic superhero Dabung Girl leads a rescue mission into the city to save a missing girl and stand up against child tra

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Julia's House #1

Julia's House for Lost Creatures

Julia's new home is much too quiet, but her plan to invite lost mermaids, goblins, and dragons inside quickly turns into

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Lone Wolf Goes to the Library

Wolf needs to return his library book during the chaos of story time, but avoiding other people is a tall order for this

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In a society where girls train to be small enough to tunnel for the harvest, Jena makes a discovery that forces her to q

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