Families who loved Would You Rather Be a Princess or a Dragon? by Barney Saltzberg often look for books with a similar feel. These 20 recommendations were selected for their similarity in style, theme, and reading level.
Reach for this book when your child feels boxed in by expectations or is struggling to reconcile different parts of their personality. It is the perfect choice for a child who wants to wear a tutu while digging for worms, or a toddler who oscillates between being sweet and 'stamping their feet.' This playful concept book uses a 'Would You Rather' format to compare the traits of a graceful princess and a rowdy dragon, ultimately celebrating the idea that we contain multitudes. Saltzberg’s whimsical illustrations and interactive questioning invite children to explore their own preferences without judgment. It moves beyond traditional gender tropes to focus on temperament and behavior, helping children realize that identity isn't an 'either/or' choice. It is a fantastic tool for normalizing the messy, complex reality of being a human who can be both gentle and fierce. Ideal for ages 3 to 6, it serves as a gentle confidence builder and a joyful celebration of self-expression.
