Families who loved The Things You Kiss Goodbye by Leslie Connor often look for books with a similar feel. These 20 recommendations were selected for their similarity in style, theme, and reading level.
Reach for this book when your teenager is struggling to find their voice in a relationship that feels restrictive or when they are grieving a significant loss. This story follows Bettina, a girl navigating the intense grief of a family tragedy while realized her relationship with an older, possessive boyfriend is stifling her growth. It is a powerful exploration of setting boundaries and rediscovering self-worth after trauma. Parents will appreciate how the book models the difficult process of 'kissing goodbye' to people and situations that no longer serve a person's well-being. While it deals with heavy themes of death and emotional manipulation, the tone remains realistic and ultimately empowering for readers aged 14 and up. It serves as an excellent tool for opening conversations about healthy vs. unhealthy relationship dynamics and the non-linear path of healing.