Books Like The How & the Why
Families who loved The How & the Why by Cynthia Hand often look for books with a similar feel. These 20 recommendations were selected for their similarity in style, theme, and reading level.
Families who loved The How & the Why by Cynthia Hand often look for books with a similar feel. These 20 recommendations were selected for their similarity in style, theme, and reading level.
A parent should reach for this book when their teenager is asking deep questions about their identity, particularly regarding adoption or their family history. It is a powerful tool for navigating the messy, often contradictory emotions of wanting to know where you come from while still loving the life you have. The story follows eighteen-year-old Cassandra Ridgeway, who is given letters from her biological mother just as she discovers she is pregnant herself. The book explores themes of dual identity, the weight of secrets, and the realization that parents are fallible human beings. Parents will appreciate how it validates the 'missing piece' feeling many adopted children experience without devaluing the adoptive family bond. It is a mature, realistic look at the transition into adulthood and the courage required to write your own story.
