Families who loved It's Not Easy Being Mean by Lisi Harrison often look for books with a similar feel. These 20 recommendations were selected for their similarity in style, theme, and reading level.
A parent would reach for this book when their middle schooler is grappling with the intense social pressures of popularity, clique dynamics, and the fear of being an outsider. It addresses the emotional exhaustion of keeping up appearances and the subtle (and not so subtle) ways girls compete for status in eighth grade. The story follows Massie Block and her clique as they search for a legendary secret room, dealing with jealousy, athletic pressure, and the cost of fame. It normalizes the desire for belonging while showing the messy reality of social hierarchies. Parents might choose this as a safe way to explore mean girl behaviors and the importance of staying true to oneself during the volatile pre-teen years.