Families who loved My Extra Best Friend by Julie Bowe often look for books with a similar feel. These 20 recommendations were selected for their similarity in style, theme, and reading level.

Reach for this book when your child is grappling with the sting of a 'silent' friendship or the confusing return of a friend who once drifted away. It speaks directly to the hurt of being ignored and the complicated process of deciding whether to give someone a second chance. The story follows Ida May as she encounters her former best friend, Elizabeth, at summer camp after months of unanswered letters and radio silence. Through Ida May's experience, parents can help children navigate the messy reality of social ghosting, changing identities, and the difference between holding a grudge and protecting one's feelings. It is an ideal pick for ages 8 to 12, offering a realistic look at how friendships evolve and the courage it takes to communicate through anger. It provides a helpful roadmap for moving from resentment toward a new, more mature understanding of loyalty.