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Reach for this book when your child is navigating the complex emotions of a blended family or questioning their own sense of belonging after a major life change. It is particularly helpful for children who feel torn between honoring their past and embracing a new family structure, especially when legal adoption or a name change is on the table. The story follows Erin, a young girl who must decide if she wants to be formally adopted by her stepfather and take his last name. Amidst the typical pressures of middle school, including a game of truth or dare and a first crush, Erin grapples with what a name truly means for her identity. This is a gentle, realistic look at the internal tug-of-war children experience when they love two different worlds, providing a safe space to discuss loyalty, self-worth, and the definition of family.