Families who loved I Hate My Best Friend by Ruth Rosner often look for books with a similar feel. These 20 recommendations were selected for their similarity in style, theme, and reading level.
Reach for this book when your child feels like a 'third wheel' or expresses sudden resentment toward a best friend following the arrival of a new sibling, cousin, or classmate. It provides a gentle, realistic window into the complicated feelings of displacement and jealousy that arise when a close-knit duo suddenly becomes a trio. The story follows Annie and Nina, whose inseparable bond is tested when Nina's cousin Irina arrives from Russia. As Nina focuses on helping her cousin adjust, Annie feels left behind and angry. This transitional chapter book is perfect for early readers ages 7 to 10 who are navigating the shifting sands of elementary school social circles. It validates the 'ugly' feelings of jealousy while modeling how to expand one's heart to include new people without losing old bonds.