Books Like Hands Are Not for Hitting
Families who loved Hands Are Not for Hitting by Martine Agassi often look for books with a similar feel. These 20 recommendations were selected for their similarity in style, theme, and reading level.
Families who loved Hands Are Not for Hitting by Martine Agassi often look for books with a similar feel. These 20 recommendations were selected for their similarity in style, theme, and reading level.
A parent would reach for this book when their toddler has begun using their hands to hit, push, or grab during moments of frustration or excitement. It is the essential tool for those 'big impulse' years when physical reactions outpace verbal skills. Rather than focusing solely on what a child should not do, this book provides a positive and empowering framework by celebrating all the wonderful, constructive things hands can do: like waving, drawing, playing, and helping. By focusing on 'replacement behaviors,' the book helps children ages 1 to 4 understand that while their feelings are valid, their hitting is not. It uses simple, repetitive language to build a vocabulary of self-control and empathy. Parents will appreciate the gentle, non-shaming tone that treats hitting as a developmental milestone to be guided rather than a character flaw to be punished. It is a perfect choice for navigating sibling rivalry, playdate scuffles, or the 'terrible twos' transition into social play.
