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A parent might reach for this book when their child is beginning to ask deeper questions about their family history or is processing the absence of a biological parent. It is a gentle yet profound resource for families where children are being raised by grandparents or are curious about the lives of those they have lost. Damian, who lost his mother as an infant, navigates his middle school years by weaving together the stories his grandmother shares about her own past in foster care and his mother's childhood. This graphic memoir uses imagination and memory to bridge the gap between generations, making it a beautiful choice for children aged 10 to 16 who are grappling with loneliness or a desire for connection. It validates the complex feelings of grief while celebrating the unconventional families that sustain us. It offers a realistic but deeply hopeful look at how we carry our ancestors with us, proving that love can be a hand me down that never wears out.