Families who loved Grammy Lamby and the Secret Handshake by Kate Klise often look for books with a similar feel. These 20 recommendations were selected for their similarity in style, theme, and reading level.
Reach for this book when your child starts ducking away from a relative's enthusiastic kisses or seems uncomfortable with forced physical affection during family gatherings. It provides a gentle, non-threatening way to discuss the concept of personal space and bodily autonomy without making a child feel guilty for their feelings. The story follows Larry Lamb, who loves his Grammy but finds her 'Big Squeeze' hugs and loud smooches a bit too much to handle. Through humor and adorable illustrations, the book models how a child can communicate their needs and negotiate a new way of showing love that feels safe and comfortable for everyone. It is an essential tool for teaching consent at an early age, framing it as a way to make relationships stronger rather than a rejection of a loved one. It is perfectly suited for children ages 3 to 7 who are navigating the transition from being treated like a baby to becoming 'big kids' with their own preferences.
