Families who loved Crashing in Love by Jennifer Richard Jacobson often look for books with a similar feel. These 20 recommendations were selected for their similarity in style, theme, and reading level.
Reach for this book when your middle schooler is struggling with a need for control, often manifesting through rigid lists, high self-criticism, or a belief that they can prevent bad things from happening if they are just perfect enough. Following a hit and run accident and her parents' divorce, twelve year old Peyton tries to navigate the messiness of real life using a collection of quotes and a checklist for the ideal boyfriend. It is a warm, humorous exploration of how life's best moments often happen outside of our plans. Peyton's journey from rigid control to embracing uncertainty makes this an excellent choice for children dealing with family transitions or perfectionism. The story handles themes of empathy and responsibility with a gentle touch, making it appropriate for the 10 to 14 age range. Parents will appreciate the way it validates the anxiety behind a child's need for order while showing them the beauty in life's unpredictable detours.