Families who loved Confessions of a Bitter Secret Santa by Lara Rice Bergen often look for books with a similar feel. These 20 recommendations were selected for their similarity in style, theme, and reading level.

A parent might reach for this book when their child is struggling with disappointment or jealousy during the holidays, especially around school events like gift exchanges. "Confessions of a Bitter Secret Santa" tells the story of Noelle, a middle schooler who is crushed when she draws the name of her rival for the class Secret Santa instead of her crush. The book validates the less-than-cheerful feelings kids can experience amidst festive pressure, exploring themes of frustration, empathy, and the true meaning of kindness. It’s a light, humorous, and highly relatable read for ages 10 to 14 that normalizes feeling a bit like a Grinch and shows a gentle path toward a more generous perspective, making it a great conversation starter about social pressures and holiday spirit.