Books Like Choosing Sides
Families who loved Choosing Sides by Ilene Cooper often look for books with a similar feel. These 20 recommendations were selected for their similarity in style, theme, and reading level.
Families who loved Choosing Sides by Ilene Cooper often look for books with a similar feel. These 20 recommendations were selected for their similarity in style, theme, and reading level.
Reach for this book when you notice your child is performing for your approval rather than their own joy, especially regarding sports or extracurriculars. It speaks directly to the 'pleaser' child who feels trapped by expectations and fears that quitting something they dislike will be seen as a failure of character. It provides a roadmap for how to navigate that difficult conversation with a parent who may be over-invested in their child's success. Jonathan is a middle schooler who finds himself under the thumb of an aggressive, win-at-all-costs basketball coach. While his father is thrilled to see him on the court, Jonathan is miserable. The story explores themes of personal integrity, the difference between quitting and moving on, and the anxiety of disappointing those we love. It is a realistic, grounded choice for children aged 8 to 12 who are starting to define their own identities apart from their family's legacy.
