Families who loved Asking for a Friend by Ronnie Riley often look for books with a similar feel. These 20 recommendations were selected for their similarity in style, theme, and reading level.
A parent would reach for this book when their child is struggling with the paralyzing fear of social rejection or when they notice their child creating elaborate stories to mask loneliness. It is particularly valuable for neurodivergent or queer youth who feel like they are performing a version of themselves just to fit in. The story follows Eden Jones, a nonbinary middle schooler with severe social anxiety who has lied to their mother about having a robust friend group. When a birthday party is announced, Eden must bridge the gap between their imagination and reality. This is a deeply empathetic look at the lengths children go to when they feel invisible. While it addresses the consequences of lying, it focuses more on the courage required to be authentic. It is an age-appropriate exploration of gender identity and mental health that remains joyful rather than tragic. Parents will appreciate how it validates the physical experience of anxiety while providing a hopeful roadmap for building genuine, imperfect connections.