
Reach for this book when your teenager seems to be performing a version of themselves to please others or feels like their true interests are embarrassing. It is perfect for the overachiever who is burning out under the weight of perfectionism and a rigid five year plan. The story follows Zoe, a girl who has meticulously curated a serious, mature persona to match her ambitious boyfriend, but finds her real joy in the colorful, chaotic world of a sci-fi fandom. Through Zoe's secret trip to a convention, the book explores the tension between who we think we should be and who we actually are. It is a heartfelt look at identity, the courage required to be authentic, and the vital importance of finding a community where you do not have to hide your enthusiasm. This is an appropriate and engaging contemporary read for high schoolers navigating the transition to adulthood.
Protagonist lies to parents and boyfriend to attend the convention.
Includes kissing and discussions of romantic commitment.
The book deals with identity and emotional manipulation in relationships. The approach is direct and secular. The resolution is realistic and empowering, focusing on Zoe's self-actualization rather than just a romantic conclusion.
A 16-year-old girl who feels like she is 'playing a role' in her own life, particularly one who is in a relationship where she feels she must dim her own light to make her partner look better.
Read cold. Parents might want to discuss the scene where Zoe realizes Simon's 'lofty scorn' is actually a form of control. A parent might see their child being dismissed or belittled by a 'perfect' boyfriend or girlfriend and realize their child is losing their personality to fit in.
Younger teens will enjoy the zany convention antics and the 'secret life' trope. Older teens will resonate more deeply with the pressure of college planning and the weight of outgrowing a first love.
Unlike many fandom books that focus solely on the 'geek' culture, this one deeply examines the psychological toll of suppressing one's true self to meet societal or partner expectations.
Zoe Rosenthal is a high-achieving high school senior with a life mapped out to the second. Her plan involves supporting her boyfriend Simon's political ambitions and keeping her 'obsessive' love for the TV show Bleeders a secret. To prove she is in control, she sneaks off to Dragon Con in Atlanta, planning to get the fandom out of her system once and for all. Instead, she finds a diverse group of friends who celebrate her intensity rather than judging it, forcing her to re-evaluate her relationship and her future.
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