
A parent would reach for this book when their child is grappling with a new medical diagnosis that feels embarrassing or life-altering, particularly issues related to chronic illness or digestive health. It is also an essential choice for children beginning to navigate the intersections of health and gender identity. Al Schneider is a middle schooler dealing with Crohn's disease, and her story tackles the messy reality of being a kid with a body that does not always behave. By focusing on humor and the creation of a supportive 'Bathroom Club,' the story helps destigmatize chronic illness while gently exploring Al's realization that she is queer. The book addresses heavy feelings of shame and isolation with a light touch, making it appropriate for the 9 to 12 age range. It is a powerful tool for building empathy and helping children see that their physical or internal differences do not define their entire worth.
Depicts the physical and emotional toll of living with a chronic, painful illness.
Chronic illness including detailed descriptions of physical pain, medical procedures (colonoscopy), and the emotional toll of a lifelong diagnosis. There are brief mentions of hospitalizations and the stress of navigating healthcare systems.
A 10 to 12-year-old who feels 'betrayed' by their own body, particularly those dealing with invisible chronic illnesses like IBD, or any child who feels like their physical needs make them an outcast.
This book can be read cold, but parents may want to preview the scenes involving the colonoscopy and hospital visits to help facilitate a conversation about medical anxiety. The descriptions of digestive issues are frank and frequent. A child expresses deep shame about their body, perhaps saying they feel 'gross' or 'broken,' or they are withdrawing from social activities because they are afraid of having a medical accident in public.
A 9-year-old will likely focus on the 'gross-out' humor and the school-based friendships. A 12-year-old will more deeply resonate with the challenges of navigating identity and relationships while managing a chronic illness, the fear of long-term illness, and the complex social dynamics of middle school.
This book is unique because it refuses to sanitize the reality of chronic digestive illness. It uses humor not to deflect from the pain, but to reclaim power over it, while showing how Al's health struggles intersect with her understanding of herself and her relationships.
Al Schneider is an twelve-year-old starting middle school while grappling with a recent diagnosis of Crohn's disease. The story follows her journey of managing painful flare-ups, the embarrassment of frequent bathroom trips, and the anxiety of medical procedures like colonoscopies. Along the way, she navigates shifting friendships and the challenges of navigating middle school while also exploring her identity and attraction to girls. With the help of 'The Bathroom Club,' a group of fellow students with various medical and personal reasons for needing a safe space, Al learns to advocate for her health and accept herself.
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