
Reach for this book when your teen is struggling to balance their own needs with the unpredictable reality of a family member's mental health crisis. It is a sophisticated choice for parents of older teens who are navigating the high stakes of first love while simultaneously acting as an emotional anchor for their household. Through the eyes of seventeen-year-old Cassie, the story explores the heavy burden of living with a brilliant but increasingly unstable stepfather. As Cassie falls for a talented young musician, she must learn that love does not require self-sacrifice and that genius is no excuse for toxicity. It is a realistic, emotionally resonant look at setting boundaries and finding one's own voice amidst family chaos.
Features a central, sweet, and age-appropriate first romance.
Depicts the heavy emotional toll of a parent's mental health decline and domestic volatility.
The book deals directly with untreated mental illness (likely bipolar disorder or schizophrenia, though not explicitly labeled) and the emotional abuse that can stem from it. The approach is secular and grounded in psychological realism. The resolution is realistic rather than perfectly happy: Cassie finds autonomy, even if the family unit remains fractured.
A mature high schooler who feels like the 'responsible one' in a chaotic home. It is perfect for the teenager who is interested in the arts but needs to see a healthy portrayal of boundaries within creative and romantic relationships.
Parents should be aware of scenes involving Dino's intense verbal outbursts and paranoia. The romance is sweet but intense, typical of YA contemporary fiction. It can be read cold, but a follow-up conversation about 'caregiver burnout' would be beneficial. A parent might see their child withdrawing or becoming hyper-vigilant to the moods of others in the house. This book is for the teen who has stopped asking for things because they don't want to add to the 'stress' of the family.
Younger teens (14) will focus on the swoony romance and the unfairness of the parents. Older teens (17-18) will likely resonate more with the themes of impending independence and the complex grief of leaving a troubled home.
Caletti uniquely blends the high-brow world of classical music with the gritty, domestic reality of mental illness, avoiding the 'tortured artist' trope by showing the actual damage that behavior causes to loved ones.
Cassie is living in the shadow of her stepfather, Dino, a world-renowned violinist whose mental health is deteriorating into paranoia and volatility. As her mother tries to maintain a facade of normalcy, Cassie finds an escape in Ian, a gifted young musician. The story follows her journey of distinguishing between passion and obsession, and learning that she cannot fix the adults in her life.
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