
A parent would reach for this book when their teenager is standing at the crossroads of a major life transition, particularly one that involves moving away or choosing between personal ambition and family loyalty. Missy Cord is a bright student in a small town who wins a life-changing college scholarship, but her excitement is clouded by the heavy guilt of leaving behind her family and the only world she has ever known. This story beautifully captures the nuanced anxiety of the 'first to go' and the complex tug-of-war between love and independence. It is an ideal read for older middle schoolers and high schoolers who are beginning to feel the pressure of their own looming departures and need to know that their hesitation is a normal part of growing up. Newton offers a realistic look at how we define ourselves within a community while still finding the courage to step outside of it.
Themes of separation anxiety and the difficulty of saying goodbye to loved ones.
The book deals with socioeconomic status and the pressure of being an achiever in a rural environment. The approach is realistic and secular. The resolution is hopeful but grounded: it doesn't suggest that leaving is easy, only that it is necessary for growth.
A high school junior or senior who feels 'guilty' about their success or feels that their family cannot function without them. It's for the kid who is a 'big fish in a small pond' and is terrified of the ocean.
This book is safe to read cold. Parents should be prepared to discuss the concept of 'loyalty' and how it differs from 'obligation.' A parent might see their child downplaying their own achievements or expressing an unusual amount of worry about 'who will take care of things' once they go to college.
Younger teens will focus on the social changes and the 'scary' prospect of leaving home. Older teens will resonate more deeply with the specific academic pressures and the romantic/familial conflicts inherent in long-distance moves.
Unlike many YA novels that focus on the excitement of leaving home, Newton focuses almost entirely on the grief and hesitation involved in that transition, validating the reader's fear rather than just telling them to 'be brave.'
Missy Cord lives in a small, close-knit community where everyone's business is public knowledge. When she is awarded a prestigious scholarship that requires her to leave town, she faces an internal crisis. While her academic success is a triumph, she feels a profound sense of responsibility toward her mother and the boyfriend she'd be leaving behind. The narrative follows her emotional journey as she navigates these expectations and ultimately decides what her future should look like.
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