
Reach for this book when your child is facing a major life transition, such as joining a new family or moving to an unfamiliar environment where they feel like an outsider. It is particularly healing for children who are struggling to reconcile their past identity with a new reality. The story follows Henk, a young boy who discovers that his life on a Dutch farm was a protective lie to keep him safe from the Nazis. When the war ends, he is returned to his biological Jewish parents, whom he does not remember. This gentle historical novel explores the profound emotional weight of belonging and the confusing grief of leaving one home for another. While set against the backdrop of the Holocaust, the narrative focuses on the internal psychological experience of a child navigating displacement. It is appropriate for children aged 8 to 12, offering a sensitive way to discuss how family is built through both memory and shared love. Parents will appreciate how it validates a child's right to feel sad about a change, even when that change is meant to be a 'happy' ending.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book handles the Holocaust with extreme delicacy, focusing on the aftermath rather than the atrocities. The resolution is realistic and hopeful, suggesting that love can be rebuilt even if the trauma of displacement remains.
An 8 to 10 year old who is observant and sensitive, perhaps a child in a foster or kinship care situation who is struggling with the concept of 'home' or a child who has recently moved and feels like their old life has been erased.
Read cold. The book is short and accessible. Parents might want to prepare to explain why children had to be hidden during WWII if the child lacks historical context. A parent might choose this after hearing their child say, 'I want to go back to how things were,' or 'You aren't my real family/friends,' during a period of transition.
Younger readers (8-9) will focus on the sadness of leaving the farm and the farm animals. Older readers (10-12) will better grasp the complex emotional challenges Benjamin faces as he adjusts to a new family and life after the war.
Unlike many Holocaust stories that focus on the 'hiding' period, this book focuses exclusively on the 'coming home' period, which is rarely explored in middle-grade fiction but is deeply relevant to modern issues of displacement and adoption.
Set in the Netherlands immediately following WWII, the story centers on Henk, who has spent the war years hidden with a Christian farming family to escape Nazi persecution. When the war ends, he is abruptly reunited with his biological Jewish parents. The narrative follows his transition from the rural life he loved to a city life he fears, and his slow journey toward remembering his birth name, Benjamin, and accepting his new (old) family.
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