About This Book
Reach for this book when you notice your child consistently putting others' needs above their own, or if they struggle to say no when friends ask too much of them. It is a vital tool for the 'people pleaser' who feels a heavy sense of responsibility to be helpful at the cost of their own well-being. Wheetle is a sweet, hardworking wagon who loves being useful, but he learns the hard way that ignoring his own 'wobbly wheels' leads to a total breakdown. Cindy Derby uses the metaphor of a physical mechanical failure to illustrate the very real emotional toll of poor boundaries. The story gently models how to communicate limits and, perhaps most importantly, how to accept help from others when we are the ones in need. It is a beautiful choice for children ages 4 to 8 who are navigating the social complexities of preschool and early elementary school, providing a clear vocabulary for self-care and mutual support.
