
When your toddler experiences a meltdown because of a transition, a lost toy, or sheer overstimulation, reach for this book. It is designed for those moments when 'big feelings' take over a small body and logic no longer works. This board book helps children identify the physical sensations of being overwhelmed while providing concrete, age-appropriate strategies to find their way back to a baseline of calm. Written with the expertise of a child psychologist, the book uses positive language to normalize intense emotions like anger and excitement. It introduces tangible tools such as belly breathing and muscle relaxation that parents can practice alongside their child. By focusing on 'making too-big feelings a little bit smaller,' it empowers toddlers to understand their own emotional regulation, making it an essential resource for navigating the early years of emotional development.
The book deals exclusively with emotional dysregulation in a secular, direct, and highly realistic manner. There are no heavy themes of loss or trauma, only the everyday frustrations of toddlerhood. The resolution is consistently hopeful and empowering.
A two or three-year-old who is entering the 'terrible twos' or 'threenage' years, specifically a child who expresses frustration physically (hitting, screaming, or tensing up) and needs a visual manual for what to do instead.
This book is best read during a 'cold' moment (when the child is already calm) so that the techniques can be practiced as a game before they are needed in a 'hot' moment of distress. A parent who has just experienced a public meltdown or a bedtime power struggle and feels 'touched out' or helpless in the face of their child's intensity.
A one-year-old will enjoy the bright illustrations and the rhythmic nature of the breathing exercises. A three-year-old will begin to internalize the vocabulary of 'big feelings' and may start to self-initiate the 'Calm-Down Kit' or the breathing techniques modeled in the text.
Unlike many 'feelings' books that just label emotions, Cara Goodwin uses her psychological background to provide evidence-based somatic grounding techniques (like the muscle squeeze) that are rarely seen in books for this young an audience. """
This is a pedagogical board book that follows several toddlers as they experience high-intensity emotions like frustration, anger, and over-excitement. Each scenario presents a 'big feeling' and follows up with a specific, actionable calming strategy: deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, asking for a hug, or using a designated 'Calm-Down Kit.' It concludes with the reassurance that feelings are manageable.
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