
Reach for this book when your child has noticed someone who looks or moves differently and isn't sure how to react. It is the perfect tool for when a child's natural curiosity leads to staring or uncomfortable questions in public. The story follows Kate, who encounters a boy named Timmy at the park. Timmy has a developmental disability, and Kate feels unsure about his behavior and appearance. Through a gentle conversation with her mother, Kate learns that while Timmy navigates the world differently, they share many of the same interests and feelings. This book is ideal for children ages 4 to 8, providing a direct and compassionate model for how to move past initial hesitation toward genuine friendship. It transforms a potentially awkward social moment into a lesson on empathy, commonality, and the importance of seeing the person behind the disability.
It uses language common for its 2001 publication date (including the term 'mentally retarded,' which requires parent context today). The resolution is highly realistic and hopeful, focusing on social inclusion.
An elementary student who has expressed confusion or fear about someone who is different from them, or a child starting at an inclusive school for the first time.
Parents should be aware the book uses the term 'mentally retarded.' In a modern context, a parent might want to replace this with 'developmental disability' or 'neurodivergence' while reading aloud. A parent might reach for this after their child pointed or asked 'What's wrong with that person?' in a loud, public setting, causing the parent social embarrassment.
Younger children (4-5) will focus on the 'how to be nice' aspect and the mother-child bond. Older children (7-8) will better grasp the concept of internal vs. external differences.
This book is unique because it centers the parent-child dialogue as the primary vehicle for understanding, modeling exactly how a parent can answer difficult questions in real-time. """
Kate is at the park with her mother when she spots a boy named Timmy. Kate is initially hesitant and curious about Timmy's physical appearance and behavior, which are different from what she's used to. Her mother uses the moment as a teaching opportunity, explaining disability in simple, relatable terms. Kate eventually approaches Timmy, discovering they both enjoy many of the same things, leading to a blossoming friendship.
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