
Reach for this book when your child comes home complaining about a classmate who follows every rule to a fault or constantly reports on others. It is the perfect choice for navigating the social friction of school field trips and the frustration of being paired with someone whose personality clashes with your own. The story follows Gilbert the opossum on a Thanksgiving class trip to a historical site, where he is stuck with a partner who is a known tattletale. Through Gilbert's experience, children see their own feelings of annoyance and impatience validated. The book balances humor with a realistic look at how social dynamics play out in elementary school. It is an excellent tool for teaching empathy and the value of looking past a peer's irritating habits to find common ground. Parents will find it particularly helpful for discussing 'snitching' versus 'reporting' and how to maintain kindness even when someone is getting on your nerves.
The book is entirely secular and grounded in realistic school social dynamics. It briefly touches on historical Pilgrim life in a very light, child-friendly way. The resolution is realistic: Philip doesn't undergo a personality transplant, but he and Gilbert find a middle ground.
An elementary student who is feeling 'socially stuck,' perhaps with a desk mate or a lab partner they don't like. It's for the child who is learning that they don't have to be best friends with everyone, but they do have to be respectful and cooperative.
This book can be read cold. It may be helpful to discuss the difference between the modern Thanksgiving holiday and the historical setting depicted in the museum. A parent might choose this after hearing their child say, 'I hate working with [Name], they are so annoying!' or 'They always tell on me for nothing!'
Younger children (4-5) will focus on the humor of the animal characters and the fun of the field trip. Older children (6-8) will deeply resonate with the social politics of 'the tattletale' and the pressure of staying out of trouble.
Unlike many books that portray the 'annoying peer' as someone who needs to be fixed, Diane deGroat shows that even the 'tattletale' has feelings and can be a helpful ally in the right situation.
Gilbert is thrilled about his class field trip to a living history museum called Pilgrim Town. However, his excitement sours when he is assigned Philip as his 'buddy.' Philip is a strict rule-follower who frequently tells on others for minor infractions. Throughout the day, Gilbert struggles with Philip's behavior and the fear of being embarrassed. After a series of mishaps and a moment of shared trouble, the two find a way to connect and appreciate one another's strengths.
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