
Reach for this book when your child starts to treat a trip to the supermarket like a cross-country odyssey or struggles with the agonizing wait for a caregiver to return. It is a humorous and comforting tool for those long moments in a child's life where five minutes feels like five years. Amy is waiting outside a store for her mother, and her imagination takes over as she envisions growing up, getting married, and having her own children, all before Mama comes back through the door. Beatrice Schenk de Regniers perfectly captures the distorted sense of time that children experience. By validating Amy's impatience through a whimsical, exaggerated lens, the story turns a common source of anxiety into a creative adventure. It is an ideal choice for preschoolers and early elementary students who are learning to manage their expectations and discover the power of their own daydreams to pass the time.
The book deals with mild separation anxiety and the subjective nature of time. The approach is secular and realistic, though the internal daydreams are fantastical. The resolution is grounded and hopeful, re-establishing the security of the parent-child bond.
A 4 or 5-year-old child who becomes easily distressed or bored during errands, or a student who is beginning to learn about the concept of 'past, present, and future.'
This book can be read cold. It is helpful to emphasize the distinction between Amy's real life and her 'imaginary' life so younger children don't get confused by the sudden jump in her age. A parent might see their child sighing dramatically, asking 'How much longer?' for the tenth time, or showing signs of worry when the parent is out of sight for a few moments.
A 3-year-old will enjoy the repetition and the reassurance that Mama comes back. A 6 or 7-year-old will appreciate the hyperbole and the humor of Amy living a whole life on a bench.
Unlike many books about waiting that focus on boredom, this one focuses on the expansive power of the child's mind to fill the void, making the child the hero of their own wait.
Amy sits on a bench outside a grocery store waiting for her mother. As the minutes tick by, Amy's imagination spirals into an epic life story. She imagines herself growing older, falling in love, getting married, and having her own children, all while staying in the exact same spot. Eventually, her mother emerges from the store, and the 'eternal' wait ends in a warm reunion.
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