About This Book
Reach for this book when your child is struggling with the friction of family reunions or feeling protective of their personal space and traditions. It is a perfect choice for navigating the 'comparison trap' that often happens when cousins from different backgrounds meet, or when a child feels their favorite traditions are being misunderstood. V. Malar lives on a farm in India and is eager to host her cousins from Seattle for the Pongal festival. However, she soon faces the frustration of guest-host dynamics when her cousins seem unimpressed by her world. This story beautifully captures the internal struggle of wanting to be a 'gracious host' while dealing with feelings of annoyance and cultural disconnect. It is an ideal bridge for children ages 6 to 9 who are learning to find common ground with others. Parents will appreciate the focus on emotional regulation, the importance of seeing others' perspectives, and the celebration of South Asian culture through a relatable, contemporary lens.
What Parents Should Know
Sensitive Topics
The book handles cultural differences and 'urban vs. rural' friction with a realistic, secular approach. There is no trauma, only the common social discomfort of meeting extended family for the first time.
