
Reach for this book when your family is adjusting to a grandparent or relative moving in, particularly if that transition is causing friction between well-meaning caregivers and a fiercely independent senior. It is an ideal bridge for children who see the adults around them becoming stressed by new responsibilities. Eight-year-old Jenna is thrilled when her cool, motorcycle-riding Great-Great Aunt Tannie moves in after a fall. However, the reality of shared space, physical limitations, and her mother's over-protectiveness soon leads to flared tempers. Through Jenna's eyes, the story explores how to maintain dignity while receiving care. It is a gentle, realistic look at finding a new family rhythm and remembering to prioritize joy over chores. Best for ages 7 to 10.
The book deals with aging and physical injury (a broken ankle) in a very direct, secular, and realistic manner. It addresses the loss of independence and the frustration of being 'babied' by family. The resolution is hopeful and grounded in better communication.
An elementary student whose family is undergoing a major logistical shift, such as a relative moving in or a parent taking on a caregiving role, who might feel the secondary stress of the adults in the house.
Read cold. The book is very accessible. Parents might want to look at the 'Life List' concept to start a similar activity with their child. A parent might see their own reflection in Jenna's mom: exhausted, controlling out of fear, and forgetting to enjoy the person they are caring for. The moment Tannie expresses frustration at being treated like a child is a key mirror for parents.
Younger readers will focus on the fun elements like the cat named Butt and the soccer goals. Older readers (9-10) will pick up on the nuanced conflict between Jenna's mom and Tannie regarding autonomy.
Unlike many books about aging that focus on decline or memory loss, this celebrates a vibrant, 'tough' elder who remains full of life despite a temporary physical setback.
After Great-Great Aunt Tannie breaks her ankle, she moves from her Virginia farm into Jenna's suburban home. Jenna's mother becomes an over-protective caregiver, leading to a stifling environment for the independent Tannie. Jenna, caught in the middle, uses her love of soccer and Tannie's passion for bird-watching to help the family find a balance between safety and happiness.
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