
Reach for this book when your child comes home confused or hurt by a classmate who is acting like a bully. It is a perfect tool for children who are ready to move beyond just labeling someone as mean and are beginning to understand that difficult behaviors often hide deeper feelings like loneliness or fear. The story follows the Barker twins as they navigate the arrival of Carole Anne, a new student who disrupts the classroom with bossy and unkind behavior. Tomie dePaola uses his signature gentle style to show that while ignoring a bully or standing up to them are common tactics, empathy can be a powerful problem-solving tool. This book is ideal for children aged 4 to 8 who are navigating early school social dynamics. It normalizes the frustration of dealing with a difficult peer while providing a hopeful, actionable model for building bridges and finding common ground through simple acts of kindness.
Carole Anne's loneliness and the class's decision to ignore her may feel sad to sensitive readers.
The book deals with bullying and social exclusion. The approach is direct and secular. The resolution is realistic but leans toward the hopeful, as it suggests that one person's kindness can shift a group dynamic.
An elementary student who is sensitive to the 'vibes' of the classroom and might be feeling anxious about a specific peer's behavior. It is especially suited for the 'observer' child who notices others' feelings.
The book can be read cold. Parents may want to pause when the class decides to ignore Carole Anne to discuss if that tactic usually works or how it might make someone feel. A parent might choose this after hearing their child say, 'Nobody likes the new kid,' or 'There is a girl in my class who is just mean for no reason.'
Younger children (4-5) will focus on the specific mean actions and the cool dog characters. Older children (7-8) will grasp the subtext of Carole Anne’s loneliness and the social risk Morgie takes by being kind to her.
Unlike many 'bully books' that focus on empowerment through standing up, this focuses on empowerment through emotional intelligence and investigative empathy.
Carole Anne joins the Barkers' class and immediately begins exhibiting bullying behaviors: bossing others around, taking things, and being generally disruptive. The students try various tactics, including talking to her and eventually ignoring her. However, Morgie notices Carole Anne looks sad and lonely. He decides to reach out with a gesture of friendship, discovering that her behavior was a defense mechanism for being the new kid. The story ends with the beginning of a genuine friendship.
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