About This Book
Reach for this book when your child starts blaming their mistakes on an imaginary friend, a sibling, or a mysterious 'not me.' It is a gentle, humorous tool for parents navigating the phase where kids use fantasy to distance themselves from accountability. The story follows Arnie and his green, monster-like friend Trigwater, who is the supposed culprit behind every mess and mishap in Arnie's life. As the mischief escalates, Arnie eventually realizes that he must take charge of his 'friend' and, by extension, his own choices. It is a lighthearted look at a common developmental milestone: the transition from toddlerhood's lack of impulse control to the school-age expectation of responsibility. Parents will appreciate how the book validates the child's imagination while firmly modeling how to make amends and move forward.
